It’s easy to feel lonely, left out or disillusioned when you’re single at Christmas.
- Your colleagues and friends have rushed home to their families full of festive cheer.
- You wonder if the social invitations you’ve received are motivated by pity or obligation because people know you’re solo.
- You see sickly images of couples, romance and love everywhere you look.
- You know there won’t be any breathtaking surprises in your Christmas stocking or breakfast in bed.
You’re feeling so fed up that when you look in the mirror you half expect to see see a green, hairy Grinch staring back at you. Okay, I hear you…joking apart, I know Christmas can be the hardest time of year when you’re on your own.
There’s no way I’m going to let you resign yourself to a miserable Christmas. And there’s no way I’m going to let you start the New Year feeling sad and sorry for yourself either.
Here’s three things you can do to embrace your single status during the festive season and start the New Year feeling filled with feminine vitality and strength.
Review your schedule and put yourself first
Cancel anything you’ve got in your diary that you don’t truly want to do. Those ‘pity’ invitations – you don’t need them. Tell those annoying family members you were going to visit just because it seemed like you had no choice that you’ve got something different planned.
Only go places where you feel welcomed, loved and where you’ll have the most fun.
This might mean you’ll be staying at home – so be it. You are going to do Christmas exactly the way you like it.
I want you to have the valuable experience of not having to compromise yourself. And I really want you to notice how fabulous that feels.
Treat yourself like number 1
Hit the shops on Christmas Eve. Stop off for a cheeky Irish Coffee or two along the way. Grab exactly what you want to eat, indulge in a few special gifts for yourself and select the prettiest, shiniest paper to wrap them in.
Plan yourself a Christmas Day and Boxing Day extravaganza as if you’re your own BFF.
Make Christmas a date with yourself. Have your bath salts ready, decide what music you’d like to listen to, know which movies you’d like to watch and have your favourite fluffy pyjamas prepared so that you can relax and luxuriate in style.
I want you to have the valuable experience of giving yourself everything you desire in the moment, without feeling like it’s pointless or too much AND without feeling incomplete because there isn’t currently a partner there to treat you.
Rest, reflect and inspire yourself
How opportune that you have some time alone. If you haven’t already done so, invest in a beautiful journal and pen to unwrap on Christmas Day.
This is the perfect time to start working on your game plan for 2019. What would you like to experience this year?
Connect, meditate, reflect…your life is a blank canvass and you are the artist right now.
If you’re determined to find your soulmate, start to journal your highest vision for a new relationship right down to the smallest details. If you know you have some healing to do before you’re ready to date, what’s coming up for transformation and what support do you need to get started?
Before you know it, a plan will begin to form.
I want you to have the valuable experience of starting to create your own reality. I want you to feel ready to take action if you’ve decided you want something to change.
While everyone else will emerge from their Festive celebrations looking worse for wear after the late nights, family pressures and endless games of Scrabble, you’ll be walking into January with a spring in your step feeling super clear and ready to find your bliss.
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