Marriage on the rocks? Afraid you may have to face divorce or separation?

Recovering after an affair? Arguing constantly? Lost your spark in the bedroom?


Rhian Kivits, Relate qualified Therapist and Couple Expert helps couples find solutions to the painful problems that have been tearing them apart so that they can enjoy lasting, loving, fulfilling relationships and avoid the trauma of separation or divorce.

Running her own independent, premium service for couples means she combines the most effective relationship counselling and marriage guidance approaches she knows to help you achieve the results that you and your partner desire.

She offers a focused online 8 week couple intervention to help you fix your marriage or relationship crisis and end the heartache.

If you’ve been considering couple counselling or marriage counselling this is the bespoke solution for you. 

Rhian’s clients have ranged from lawyers, doctors, politicians, actors and even celebrities to professionals, entrepreneurs and other therapists. She’s also had experience helping ex-patriate and military couples with the specific challenges they face.


This is an online therapeutic service – Rhian meets couples by video call

Enjoy the benefits, high quality, support and personal attention of a professional, face to face service

No inconvenient travel rushing to an uncomfortable clinic

More flexibility to suit your busy couple schedule

Divorce or separation is a couple’s worst nightmare

The disappointment and pain of a failed relationship can leave you feeling angry, disillusioned, broken and unable to move on

The financial expense, the practical losses and changes in living arrangements can be stressful and feel devastating

Children can struggle with the disruption or harbour resentment and you all have to adapt to the new situation

Rebuilding your lives can be challenging and you may always wonder why or whether you could have done more

You need an expert who has the professional skills, intuitive focus and experience to help you get exactly where you want to be in your relationship

When you face challenges in your work, you look for a consultant who’ll trouble-shoot, create solutions and guide you towards results.

You need to understand deeply what’s going on, why it’s been happening and what you can do about it. Wouldn’t it be incredible if you could get that kind of help for your relationship?

A happy, secure, loving marriage or committed relationship is worth it’s weight in gold.

That’s where Rhian comes in. She specialises in helping couples in crisis who are too invested to just quit and who don’t want to lose everything they’ve built together.

She can help you wherever you are in the World. Your meetings take place online via video or internet call which means you can be flexible to suit your busy schedule and it’s easier than ever to get the professional help you need.

Rhian recognises that you need a bespoke package of consultancy for your couple relationship that’s completely tailored to your unique circumstances, needs and couple vision so that you don’t have to give up on each other.

She also knows that you need to build solid foundations for recovery and that you want to implement solutions so that you can overcome the painful problems, get your marriage or relationship back on track and restore your hope for a loving future together.

That’s why Rhian offers an exclusive 8 week intervention to a very limited number of couples who are totally committed to finding clarity, direction and solutions so that you can finally feel connected, intimate, fulfilled and solid together once again.


It’s finally time to make this relationship work


Manage differences in your values and aspirations as a couple


Begin to support each other at times of stress and pressure


Recover and restore trust after infidelity, affairs, lies or betrayal


Manage arguments or conflict and improve communication


Refocus commitment and rekindle the sparks of love


Learn to understand and meet each other's needs as partners


Explore new, healthy behaviour patterns that suit you both


Forgive, restore respect, rebalance power and become a strong team


Learn how to give and receive more unconditional love


Overcome sexual problems, loss of desire or low libid0


Restore passion and increase your confidence as lovers


Explore intimacy and healing touch within your relationship


Move on from grief, trauma or past abuse that's affected your lives


Navigate complex family matters or problems with in-laws


Cope after pregnancy, birth, infertility, baby loss or childlessness


Deal with the impact of past addictions or compulsive use of the internet that can damage relationships

When you need a professional who’s totally on your side and it’s make or break for your marriage or  relationship, investing in Rhian’s help is the perfect choice


Rhian is a Relate qualified Relationship Therapist with a year’s additional training in Psychosexual Therapy and a Post Graduate Training qualification

She has an impressive professional development portfolio including a Diploma in Mindfulness. She’s trained to help clients recover from trauma and abuse and has a wealth of experience with complex mental health issues, having previously worked for the organisation Mind, so no problem is too daunting for her.

Rhian’s style draws on psychodynamic, cognitive behavioural, solution focused, motivational and psycho-educational approaches. She’s also studied complementary approaches to relationships, emotional healing, bodywork, intimacy and sexuality.

She’s delivered thousands of therapeutic hours helping couples find solutions to complex problems so that they can emerge from the confusion and rescue their struggling relationships.

Her clients go from feeling paralysed by the past, resentful and disconnected to enjoying lasting, loving relationships with great communication, rekindled passion and restored hope for their longterm future.

Relationships can be tough but you don’t have to give up even if you’ve tried couple counselling or self-help strategies without success

“There are some people who just have the gift for saying the right thing. You’ve been a ray of light.”  D – recovering from relationship trauma

Rhian is an insightful, empathetic and thoughtful professional who has changed my life. I felt like I could tell her anything, and she encouraged me to challenge myself to get to the core of my relationship issues. I would recommend her to anyone without hesitation.
G - Music Producer

Overcoming the impact of childhood issues

We love Rhian’s authenticity – she is calm and full of knowledge. She’s helped us to know true value of loving each other within our marriage. 

V - Homemaker and J - Military

Trust issues, problems with sex and dramatic couple disputes dominating the marriage

We didn’t know if we could stay together. She helped us think and explore the options. We appreciated Rhian’s warmth, her good memory and her light sensible approach. 
She helped D find ways to deal with debilitating anxiety and to cope with daily life at a difficult uncertain time.
D - Lawyer & M - Designer

Couple who were falling out of love and considering separation

We resolve conflict quicker, our expectations are realistic and we have learned better communication skills.
You taught me how to stop bringing issues from my previous relationship into my new one.
A - Holistic Therapist

Constant couple conflict creating instability

We finally put an end to repetitive arguments that drained our energy. We agreed to apply Rhian’s solutions together and she helped us restore joy in our relationship that had been missing. We found deeper connection and started to understand each other. We haven’t had a real argument in the last 3 months thanks to Rhian!
M - Media CEO & B - Entrepreneur

Communication breakdown threatening the marriage

You helped me develop into a stronger, more confident, happy person. Thank you so much.

A - Business Owner

Couple managing different goals and aspirations at risk of separation

Is this right for your marriage or relationship?


Don't remain stuck accepting second best in your marriage or relationship with the risk of a painful ending that neither of you truly want

Stop going round in circles, repeating negative patterns, feeling frustrated and sweeping your problems under the carpet


Take action now to save your relationship, reclaim secure, loving connection and avoid the pain and disruption of separation or divorce


Invest in your relationship and finally master the secrets to long term commitment and a happier future together

Couples who are offered a package of support with Rhian receive an exclusive, premium level therapeutic service completely tailored to your needs. Clients are personally selected for their suitability and compatibility with Rhian as their Consultant, Mentor and Guide.

Rhian only helps a very limited number of couples at any one time in order to offer you the level of care, attention and support you need – there may be a waiting list. 

Results depend on your commitment, willingness to change and desire to make your relationship work. Staying together may not not be right for every couple so if you choose to separate Rhian can help you explore other options and move forward with clarity and positivity.


*receive guidance, strategies and next steps – value £90

package price discussed on application

*instalment and low income plans available

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