Rhian Kivits




Rhian Kivits, Relate qualified Relationship Expert, runs her own independent, premium service for clients all over the World.

She combines the most effective relationship counselling, marriage guidance, psychosexual and holistic approaches she knows to help you achieve the results that you desire.

If you need help to overcome difficult problems that are plaguing your relationships or sex life and you’ve been struggling to find a way forward this is the bespoke solution for you. 

Rhian’s clients have ranged from lawyers, doctors, politicians, actors and even celebrities to professionals, entrepreneurs and other therapists. She’s also had experience helping ex-patriate and military clients with the specific challenges they face.

She welcomes couples and individuals of all genders and sexual orientations.


This is a bespoke therapeutic coaching and consultancy service

Enjoy the benefits, high quality, support and personal attention of a professional, personalised service

Day or evening appointments available to suit your busy schedule

Telephone and online sessions available


07802 697710



Fix your relationship and end the heartache


Solve the problems that make you feel stuck, unloved or broken


Find solutions to problems with sex & intimacy


Help for you & your partner when your internet use has spiralled out of control

You need an expert who has the professional skills, intuitive focus and experience to help you get exactly where you want to be

When you face challenges in your work, you look for a consultant who’ll trouble-shoot, create solutions and guide you towards results.

You need to understand deeply what’s going on, why it’s been happening and what you can do about it. Wouldn’t it be incredible if you could get that kind of help for relationships and intimacy?

Feeling happy, secure and fulfilled in your relationships and sex life is worth it’s weight in gold.

That’s where Rhian comes in. She specialises in helping couples and individuals solve the sex and relationship problems that are weighing them down.

Your meetings take place online by video or phone call and evening appointments are available to suit your busy schedule – it’s easier than ever to get the professional help you need.

Rhian recognises that you need more than just therapy. You need a bespoke package of support that’s completely tailored to your unique circumstances, needs and vision. She also knows that you need to build solid foundations to recover from the past and that you want to implement solutions so that you can overcome painful problems, get your love life back on track and restore your hope for a happier future.

That’s why Rhian offers exclusive expert help to clients who are totally committed to finding clarity, direction and solutions so that you can overcome the past and finally feel connected, intimate and fulfilled again.


07802 697710


Rhian is a Relate qualified Relationship Expert with a year’s additional training in Psychosexual Therapy and a Post Graduate Training qualification

She has an impressive professional development portfolio including a Diploma in Mindfulness. She’s trained to help clients recover from trauma and abuse and has a wealth of experience with complex mental health issues, having previously worked for the organisation Mind.

Rhian’s style draws on psychodynamic, cognitive behavioural, solution focused, motivational and psycho-educational approaches. She’s also studied complementary approaches to relationships, emotional healing, bodywork, intimacy and sexuality and is a graduate of the Urban Tantra professional training program.

She’s delivered thousands of hours helping clients find solutions to complex problems so that they can emerge from the confusion and rescue their struggling relationships.

Her clients go from feeling paralysed by the past, resentful and disconnected to enjoying lasting, loving relationships with great communication, rekindled passion and restored hope for their longterm future.

Relationships can be tough but you don’t have to give up even if you’ve already tried therapy or self-help strategies without success


“There are some people who just have the gift for saying the right thing. You’ve been a ray of light.”  D – recovering from relationship trauma

Rhian is an insightful, empathetic and thoughtful professional who has changed my life. I felt like I could tell her anything, and she encouraged me to challenge myself to get to the core of my relationship issues. I would recommend her to anyone without hesitation.
G - Music Producer

Overcoming the impact of childhood issues

We love Rhian’s authenticity – she is calm and full of knowledge. She’s helped us to know true value of loving each other within our marriage. 

V - Homemaker and J - Military

Trust issues, problems with sex and dramatic couple disputes dominating the marriage

We didn’t know if we could stay together. She helped us think and explore the options. We appreciated Rhian’s warmth, her good memory and her light sensible approach. 
She helped D find ways to deal with debilitating anxiety and to cope with daily life at a difficult uncertain time.
D - Lawyer & M - Designer

Couple who were falling out of love and considering separation

We resolve conflict quicker, our expectations are realistic and we have learned better communication skills.
You taught me how to stop bringing issues from my previous relationship into my new one.
A - Holistic Therapist

Constant couple conflict creating instability

We finally put an end to repetitive arguments that drained our energy. We agreed to apply Rhian’s solutions together and she helped us restore joy in our relationship that had been missing. We found deeper connection and started to understand each other. We haven’t had a real argument in the last 3 months thanks to Rhian!
M - Media CEO & B - Entrepreneur

Communication breakdown threatening the marriage

You helped me develop into a stronger, more confident, happy person. Thank you so much.

A - Business Owner

Couple managing different goals and aspirations at risk of separation


07802 697710


Is this right for you?



Get the solutions you need from a Relate qualified Expert who's helped hundreds of couples and individuals with sex and relationship problems


Enjoy a confidential, supportive and safe space where couples and individuals of all genders and sexual orientations are welcomed


Take action now to save your relationship, reclaim secure, loving connection and avoid the pain and disruption of separation or divorce


Invest in your healing and personal growth to overcome the painful problems that have been plaguing your relationships and sex life

Clients who are offered a package of support with Rhian receive an exclusive, premium level therapeutic service completely tailored to your needs. Clients are personally selected for their suitability and compatibility with the service.

Rhian only helps a very limited number of clients at any one time in order to offer you the level of care, attention and support you need – there may be a waiting list. 

Results depend on your commitment and willingness to change. Staying together may not not be right for every couple so if you choose to separate Rhian can help you explore other options and move forward with clarity and positivity. Please see T&Cs before booking.

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